Ngomrhumo othile ngoku nawuphi na umntu ongamaziyo ulungele ukukhulula iimpahla zakhe, avule imilenze yakhe aze amunxe indoda yokuqala adibana nayo. Yonke intombazana entle ibuthathaka ebusweni xa ibona iimali phambi kwayo. Andifuni ukuba ligcisa lokuchola kuba lishishini eliyingozi ukukhupha imingxunya engaziwayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ungasebenzisa ikhondom, kodwa irabha ayisoloko igcina imini.
Ukunceda umphathi kunokuba ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo - eyona nto iphambili ukuba wanelisekile nguwe. Ngoko injana yakhe yawunceda umsebenzi. Kwaye ngethemba uya kuyidinga ngaphezu kwesinye.